From pretty much the beginning of Russell Peters’ career, I
have been a supporter of his. His jokes
were original, it took the veil off of a lot of issues, and they were funny and
relatable. For a few years, he was in
town on my birthday, but I wouldn’t find out until after I was committed to
plans, or the tickets would be sold out by the time I found out, so I’ve never
been able to see him live. That had been
a long time goal of mine.
His last two specials (particularly the latest Netflix one)
haven’t done much for me. It was almost
exclusively recycled jokes from his previous specials and I literally fell
asleep during the last one, so I couldn’t even tell you if there was any
original content. Actually, no, that’s
not true. There was a lot of content
making fun of his ex-wife. I remember
thinking “man, your daughter is going to watch this stuff as she gets
older. Do you really want her to hear
this stuff?”
I understand and accept that comedy is subjective and should
be left largely uncensored. I also don’t
agree with boycotting venues that host comedians who toe, or out-right cross
the line from humor to crass, obscene, and vulgar. The venues often don’t have creative control
over content, and just because you don’t find it funny, doesn’t mean someone
else does.
Comedy is an escapism, and should be left at that.
There are subjects in comedy that I sometimes don’t find humorous
(generally they’re jokes that can in some way promote/condone/normalize hate of
any form) but I just either tune them out during that time, or straight up stop
watching (depends on the venue and whether or not other people are with me)
when that’s the case. I recognize that
just because it’s not my personal brand of humour, doesn’t make it someone else’s.
I also recognize that sometimes
comedians make these jokes to shine a light on those issues that people are
often uncomfortable talking about, or are a characterization of the ridiculousness
of those who support hate. I am
perfectly capable of laughing at some of these jokes, given the right context
or the history of that particular comedian.
Where I draw the line, personally, is when the jokes promote
rape culture. This should never be
funny. It should never be defended.
Let me repeat myself.
Sexual violence is not funny.
On April 2, 2017, this year’s co-host of the Juno Awards,
Russel Peters, went off script and made a joke that has – at least in Canada – potentially
left a permanent, Michael Richards sized mark on his rather illustrious
career. Standing on the stage,
surrounded by many girls in the audience who – to me – clearly look as though
they are in their mid-teens, Peters says “Wow, look at these young girls! It’s like a felony waiting to happen!” This
joke promotes statutory rape. It’s not
funny, and this needs to stop.
Here are some Canadian statistics (direct from Stats Canada)
about rape. As you read this, understand
that I am one of these statistics – the first half apply directly to me. For some people, ALL of these facts apply to
them. In a lot of ways, I was one of the
“lucky ones”:
1. Of every 100 incidents of sexual assault,
only 6 are reported to the policeo Thanks to my mom’s bravery, my abuse was reported
2. 1 in 4 North American women will be sexually assaulted during their lifetime
o All (yes all) of my incidents of my sexual abuse have taken place in North America
3. 60% of sexual abuse/assault victims are under the age of 17
o I was as young as five
4. Over 80% of sex crime victims are women
o I’m a woman. A proud woman who has survived rape
5. 80% of sexual assault incidents occur in the home
o Each time
6. 17% of girls under 16 have experienced some form of incest
o This applies to me
7. Half of all sexual offenders are married or in long term relationships
o My first abuser was a married man
8. 80% of assailants are friends and family of the victim
o My first abuser was my bio-“father”
9. Only 2 - 4% of all sexual assaults reported are false reports
o That number is far too high, and often delegitimizes the other 96 – 98% of actual victims
10. 1 - 2% of "date rape" sexual assaults are reported to the police
o And that’s just based off of empirical data
11. 11% of women have physical injury resulting for sexual assault
o This is where I am one of the lucky ones
12. 83% of disabled women will be sexual assaulted during their lifetime
o Again, this is where I’m one of the lucky ones
13. 15% of sexual assault victims are boys under 16
o This is just of the reported victims
14. 57% of aboriginal women have been sexually abuse
o If you think sexual assault is under-reported, you should look at the statistics related to abuse amongst aboriginal women. It’s even more depressing
15. 1/5th of all sexual assaults involve a weapon of some sort
o A lot of abusers just know how to groom or incapacitate their victims such that they don’t require weapons.
When Russell Peters made this joke about
statutory rape, he joked about each of my instances of rape. He joked about me. I am the subject of these
jokes.
There should be no room in comedy for
rape. It’s just that simple.
Peters has remained mute on this topic, except
for liking some tweets where he was being defended. To me, this speaks volumes,
and when he comes on my TV, I will be hitting mute.